Today’s Post: Don’t Rush in Paraguay
1. Time
Within a period of two weeks, the oppressive weight of Paraguayan summer departed for the equator, leaving us with its remains: the cool mornings and evenings and bearable midday of the fall. Summertime made me feel slow and ponderous, like a person made out of molasses. This was just as well, since the long summer days were hard to fill without recourse to a nap or several hours spent drinking tereré with friends. But the coming weather has put the edge back on things: the sharp lines of the deciduous trees, the shorn fields of cotton and corn residues, and even my own intellectual capacities, which often seemed fluffy and abstract during the warmer months. Everything seems to get more compact and energized as the days grow shorter and each hour of daylight seems a bit dearer.
Recently, I’ve been thinking about time and change, both in Paraguay and the rest of the world. Visits from my parents and brother brought me temporarily into touch with the notoriously fast-paced First World. Contentedly immersed in my Prettyview life, I was often moved to wonder, “What’s the rush?” At the same time, the cool weather has also induced me to begin work on a number of horticultural, agricultural, and forestry projects that lay dormant during the summer. And so, I’m often tempted to pack more into a day and a week, ultimately running around and wishing that others would, to quote my mom, “put a wiggle on it.”
2. Tranquilidad
“Tranquilo” – a multipurpose adjective, noun (tranquilidad), command (tranquilízate), and state of being – could certainly contend for the title of Paraguay’s national slogan. Life here is all about calming down and taking things slowly…in some ways.
To this American’s eyes, some things are definitely more tranquilo in Paraugay. Institutional processes, whether public or private, usually take far longer to be carried through to completion. The profusion of official stamps and seals and receipts – it takes three to buy toothpaste at a pharmacy or stamps at the post office – may be to blame. It could also be the uneven digitalization of many institutional processes. Or the prevalence of corruption – a bribe or personal connection tends to speed things up. Personal interactions are also much more lengthy and tranquil here. Paraguayan communication is much more high-context than we are used to in America, especially in the countryside. Though a simple “Hola,” “Adio,” or “Op!” is serviceable as a greeting, the more common greetings initiate a chain of dialogue. “Mba´éichapa´´ (How are you?), ´´Mba´eteko´´ (How is your life?), and ´´Mba´e la porte?´´ (What is the situation?) are all acceptable conversation starters, analogous to ´´Hello´´ or ´´Hi´´ in English. Many of my work partners and neighbors seem put out if I arrive and immediately jump in to a request to borrow a tool or a proposal to plant some trees. Greetings, gossip, and lengthy tereré time help smooth the way to what many Americans would call ´´the point.´´ Finally, the pace of life in the Paraguayan countryside is more tranquilo than the norm for urban Americans because business is inherently limited by economic and technological factors. Cell phone use is relatively more expensive; few people have paying jobs, motor vehicles, or computers; and entertainment is usually limited to volleyball games and talking to neighbors. So much of the fast pace of contemporary First World life stems from making money or spending it and both of these things happen less often in rural Paraguay.
But it would be misleading to portray Paraguay as a lethargic, perpetually sleepy place. Asunción, Encarnación, and Ciudad del Este have all been bustling on my occasional visits. People hop in taxis, scream into their cell phones, push you in line, and walk fast on the sidewalks. And in the campo, there are moments of hustle. One of my early trainers opined that in Paraguay, the best worker is the person who can do the most amount of work in the shortest amount of time. I am perpetually left in the dust when it comes to almost any physical task – hoeing, clearing brush, shucking corn, shelling peanuts, or washing clothes. The typical rhythm is to work at your absolute maximum until exhausted and then tereré in the shade. Eating also occurs at a breakneck pace, especially when everyone is consuming out of the same common dish. To eat too slowly or delicately is to imply that you don´t love what everyone else is shoveling down. And there are refreshing moments of simplicity that don´t come to pass too often in urban life. An oxcart yoke breaks on the way home from the field and you simply cut down a small tree for a new one. Unexpected guests arrive and are accommodated by rearranging children and freeing up a bed. Americans in Paraguay often read ´´tranquilopa´´ as mere slow-motion, when, in fact, it connotes more of an entropic attitude to life, with some elements speeding up and others slowing down.
3. Change
The dark side of tranquilidad, however, is a conservative outlook toward individual changes that, over time, aggregates to stifle progress. Saying ´´otro día´´ or ´´angamie´´ (later) doesn´t hurt once or twice. But these standard excuses, used over and over again, may be a vestige of the past that needs to be discarded in some instances.
Historically, Paraguayans have had little opportunity to embrace change. At the inland heart of South America, many indigenous ethnic groups remained isolated from Europeans long into the colonization of the continent. Difficult to access and traverse, colonial Paraguay was relegated to the Jesuits and then abandoned by the Spanish 200 years ago. Since then, the country´s three most beloved leaders - Doctor Francia, Fransisco Solano López, and Alfredo Stroessner – have ruled by keeping Paraguay isolated from its own neighbors, much less currents of critique and change in the wider world. All dictators, these men opposed political change, adopted protectionist stances toward the economy, and liquidated three generations of homegrown intelligentsia. This is to say that in the fairly consistent, isolated world of pre-colonial Paraguay, adapting to fast-paced change was not necessary. In the country´s post-independence history, such change was often not possible.
Normally, I would be hesitant to trumpet progress for the sake of progress or to valorize Paraguayan skepticism of different ways of doing things. But I have come to believe, after living in Paraguay for more than a year and a half, that Paraguayans must begin changing or face dire consequences. I will give a couple of concrete examples of why I believe this.
Trash always comes quickly to mind. Many people in Prettyview were raised in a time when all trash was decomposable. Some types of common garbage just didn´t exist (electronics, disposable milk cartons, many synthetic materials) and others had simply not reached the interior (food wrappers, light bulbs, plastic bags). Every day, the grandchildren of these people receive a school snack clad entirely in disposable, inorganic containers. They eat lollipops wrapped in foil and plastic, play with discarded compact discs, and wear holes in cheap rubber flip-flops. What does the pre-trash generation, as well as their children and grandchildren (who, after all, learned how to manage waste from their parents and grandparents) do with all this waste? Throwing it in the nearest body of water often does the trick, as does gathering it up and burning it. This often strikes Americans (especially visitors) in Paraguay as reprehensible. The littering and constant stench of the byproducts of burning plastic, rubber, and metal is unbelievable to a society used to watching its trash ´´disappear.´´ The hard-to-internalize truth, which it took me well over a year to understand, is that many Paraguayans believe that that plastic bag is going to decompose as though it were an especially thick banana leaf. Likewise, many believe that the smoke a plastic bag produces is just as harmful to humans as the smoke that burning wood produces. I challenge you to think for a minute. How would you know any different without being told? Many of us simply come from cultures that have been dealing with inorganic waste for slightly longer. And our solution – producing lots of it and hiding it in landfills – is both unavailable to people in Prettyview and, arguably, not much better than burning or burying trash. Yet burning and burying are not excellent solutions. And if Paraguayans (and Americans, for that matter) don´t want to live in an ugly, unhealthy world full of soda bottles and obsolete computers, they need to begin thinking realistically and creatively about not only how to manage trash, but also, more importantly, how to produce less of it. This will require people to make a number of changes, such as freezing ice in recycled yogurt cups instead of disposable plastic bags and working together as a community to manage trash instead of leaving it up to each family to choose whether to toss all their refuse in the street or arroyo.
There are other ways in which change is being pressed on the citizens of Prettyview and is therefore, for better or for worse, not optional. One of my Paraguayan ´´uncles,´´ Epifanio, told me that when he was a boy (sixty years ago), Prettyview was essentially a forest with paths cut between the few houses that had been built. Giant lizards (teju), deer (guasu), and armadillos (tatu) wandered along the paths and provided a reliable source of meat. To grow a crop of corn, mandioca, or cotton, you simply went out into the forest, set a big patch of it on fire, planted your seed, and came back in several months. The soil was so rich and responded so well to burning (at first), that it was not even necessary to cultivate the earth or clean the fields with a hoe. Now, most of the native forest has been chopped down. The soil is worn out and has both poor physical and chemical properties from years of cultivation. Land rights have been rationalized and the population has exploded. Families now have parcels of land that they cultivate every year, seldom allowing the fields to lie fallow and never allowing forest to regenerate. The only wild mammal I have seen in Prettyview or the surrounding fields is a rat. It is necessary to hoe corn two to three times to beat back the weeds that are virtually unknown outside of agricultural fields with poor soil. Invasive grasses grow everywhere and erosion is common. It would be nice if Paraguayans could return to the old days (in this case, the 1950s) when a small population exploited a dense forest. But this will never come to pass. Yet many Paraguayans continue to act as though they are living in these times. Burning fields prior to planting becomes progressively less productive and more damaging the further you get away from native forest, but many people still do it, much to the detriment of their own soil and, if the fire burns out of control, their neighbors´. All but the most unsavory animals are killed on site if a gun or other weapon is handy. And only the most perspicacious are willing to admit that there are fewer trees available than there were in the past for firewood, construction, and tool-making. Again, I do not make these claims from a privileged position. To wit, Americans continue to drive copiously despite peak oil, consume what the Coneheads called ´´mass quantities´´ despite the obesity epidemic, and chronically undervalue education and research despite China. We, too, have failed to adapt to changing circumstances. Yet for rural Paraguayans, the stakes (food on the table versus the continued luxury of believing in American Exceptionalism) are much higher.
I believe that a big part of my Peace Corps work in Paraguay consists of acting as a culturally sensitive agent of responsible change. But this is often difficult in Prettyview. To begin with, there is a conservative attitude toward new things that, for reasons mentioned above, has a long cultural pedigree. Lack of education is also a persistent barrier. Education through the sixth grade is now compulsory, but, I estimate, over half of the adults I work with have less than an elementary school education. Most are technically literate, but have not had much practice reading or writing. Paradoxically, due to the Stroessner administration´s suppression of the teaching of Guaraní, most are also illiterate in their preferred language. They can read and write, but in Spanish, a language they prefer not to speak. Thus, communication is often complex, especially about technical topics which come across best when presented through textual as well as oral communication. Agricultural communities are also famously, and justifiably, resistant to new ideas. Americans often forget that some new things are, plainly speaking, bad. A good, new idea about farming may help a family to save some money or manage their land more sustainably. A bad, new idea may lead to crop failure and hunger. Unless overwhelming proof or, more commonly, peer pressure comes to bear, most people will say ´´otro día´´ until I get fed up, go home, and begin my 132nd book since arriving in Paraguay. Then there are the difficulties that I have to take responsibility for. My behavior, appearance, skill with farm implements, and language skills usually range from ´´different´´ to ´´egregious.´´ Most Paraguayans are good enough to still hang out with me and offer me enough food to feed a team of oxen, but would you really take the advice of someone who looked, acted, and spoke differently than anyone else you had ever met?
4. If not now, when?
All of this frequently leaves me thinking of Hillel´s ubiquitous rhetorical question, ´´If not now, when?´´ This ultimately has become my bedrock in Paraguay, or one of them, at least. I ask myself this question when I am demoralized and just want to stay at home or drink maté with my host mom. It often gets me out of the house to teach a lesson in the school or visit a family that might want to work with me. And it´s a question that I often ask my work partners. I usually couple it with a translation of the English adage ´´Make hay while the sun shines.´´ This is an apt saying since so much of our work takes place outside. And sometimes, it works! Paraguayans are, I think, hard workers who respect it when volunteers are kyre´ŷ (ready to work, not lazy). Showing up with a shovel and a bunch of tree seeds often accomplishes what grammatically perfect Guaraní does not. But we have to seek these opportunities out and be open to them when they appear.
Being available is critical to our work. This is one gratifying but also, sometimes, frustrating aspect of volunteer life. Though to a lesser extent than surgeons, we are always on call. A lot of my biggest successes stem from being willing to work on Saturdays, Sundays, mornings, and evenings. It kills me when somebody is ready to go on a given project and I have other plans already scheduled. A chance visit in the street may turn into an invitation to come over for lunch, which then turns into a discussion about gardens, which turns into working in the garden together, which turns into the creation of an abonera (a compost heap). Where did the socializing stop and the work begin? So what if it was a Monday afternoon and you didn´t get home until sunset? In many ways, ´´If not now, when?´´ is a volunteer´s interpretation of tranquilidad, the transformation of a change-averse attitude to one of open-ended possibility.
5. Balance
Yet Americans have a lot to learn from the tranquilo mentality. More than ever before, I find myself shocked, at least on a superficial level, at how little contentedness most of us have achieved given our vast wealth and almost unlimited access to information and possibility. Paraguayans often ask me, ´´Are there poor people in America?´´ Of course, I always answer yes, and try to explain how that is possible given my obvious wealth. Yet often my rationalizations (´´The cost of living is higher. You can´t make a living off the land anymore. Expectations are different.´´) sound hollow when I think about the reality of life here. Since I moved to Prettyview, I have seen kids drop out of elementary school so that they can do roadwork for pay, people die of acute illness because of lack of medical care, and families split up so that one or both parents can go work in Argentina or Spain. Still a good radical at heart, I continue to believe that a full education, medical care, and safe, dignified work are all basic human rights. But this belief has worn thinner as I have witnessed people who are unable to exercise these rights live full, if sometimes difficult, lives. What is a human right if a majority or significant portion of humans alive during the most materially prosperous time of our history doesn´t enjoy it?
Perhaps the most feasible approach is to continue to work with and on behalf of people who do not enjoy these basic rights or privileges while also understanding what our access to them means in context. If anything can be said in a general sense of contemporary life in late capitalist, democratic countries, it seems apropos to say that we have allowed our sense of proportion to become distorted, especially in terms of time. We are notoriously resistant to the idea of limits – to growth, power, or what have you – but the temporal counterpart of this is a resistance to waiting and patience. In this sense, we could learn a lot from Paraguayan tranquilidad. To be tranquil doesn´t mean to be fatalistic or conservative, but rather to accept that everything has its appropriate time. Critics on the left and right already hound President Obama for his ´´failure´´ to reduce unemployment, evacuate American forces from Afghanistan while leaving behind a stable government, and provide for affordable, adequate healthcare for everyone who wants. It is irresponsible to pretend that any one person, even a president, could accomplish these things. Though hard to swallow, the truth may be that doing big things well takes time.
What I am trying to get at is my hope that both Americans and Paraguayans can strive for a sort of balance between stasis and constant change. It is easy to think of myself as a volunteer coming to Paraguay to teach or change Paraguayans. Though this is occasionally the case, I also feel as though I will return to the States with a different attitude about some aspects of living. Maybe I will be more appreciative of the optimism and openness that many Americans show toward new ideas. But I also hope that I will be a little bit more tranquilopa.
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